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Saint Faith’s Prayer for
Mission
Faithful God, in baptism you have adopted us as your children,
made us members of the body of Christ and chosen us as inheritors
of your kingdom:
bless our plans for mission and outreach; guide us to seek and do
your will;
empower us by your Spirit to share our faith in witness and to serve,
and send us out as disciples of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen
May 2006
From
the Ministry Team
Retreat, or advance?
The recent United Benefice retreat at Parcevall Hall was memorable for
many reasons: as it came to an end we were nearly snowed up, and there
was a real chance that we would have to stay an extra night. There was
some genuine disappointment when we learnt that the roads were passable
after all!
Retreats can be a real means of spiritual growth. Far from being
inward-looking, or backward-looking, they give us a wonderful
opportunity to take a new step along the Way of faith. At Parcevall
Hall we focussed on discipleship, looking at the examples of Peter,
John, and our Lord’s mother. We were reminded that when Our Lord called
Peter and the other disciples they had little knowledge of what lay
ahead, and no control over where he might lead them or who else he
might call to join them on the Way. Theirs was a journey into the
unknown, a journey of faith.
Perhaps it was because of these uncertainties that the earliest
followers of Christ wanted a degree of security, a guarantee that those
closest to him would enjoy some sort of special privilege when all the
uncertainties were over. James and John even asked Jesus if they could
sit either side of him in his Kingdom! And we can trace this wish to be
‘special’, and therefore different from Christ’s other disciples, in
the many divisions and factions in the early church which are recorded
in Paul’s letters.
Those of us who have been members of St. Faith’s for many years will
inevitably feel different, and in some sense ‘special’, compared with
those outside the church. This sense of difference came up during one
of our Lent discussion groups when we were talking about baptism
families. Many families and visitors, particularly children, don’t know
what to do in church or during a service. The differences between
‘them’ and ‘us’ are now so great that there can be little communication
between us. The words of our services, and the ideas they struggle to
express, are now largely unintelligible to newcomers. And could this be
because we think we do ‘know what to do’? If our language of worship
fails to deliver the gospel message to
so many people, how can we be so sure that we have got it entirely
right? And could it be that those outside the church might even have
something to say to us about Christ’s presence in the world he came to
redeem?
It is against this background that the debate about our new all-age
service should take place. Not everyone is happy with it, and it has
had its teething problems (to which I know I’ve contributed!). But we
hope that the new service may express something of Our Lord’s concern
to welcome everyone into his Kingdom. We hope it may be a small sign of
that all-embracing love that led Our Lord to a life of obedience and
self giving, and to the saving events of the Cross and Resurrection. We
need to learn how to proclaim the gospel in today’s language, without
dumbing down either its mystery or its uncompromising message.
Of course, the plan to introduce a new form of service was a human
decision, and therefore fallible. We will not get it all right. Like
the early disciples we cannot be sure of the road ahead, and we do not
know who might join us on the Way. But of one thing I am certain: that
as an established member of St. Faith’s I am no more ‘special’ or even
‘right’ than the new family sitting next to me in the pew.
God bless,
Fred
Nye
I’m on a
Committee!
Oh give me your pity, I’m on a committee, which means that from morning
to night,
We attend and amend, and contend and defend, without a conclusion in
sight.
We compose and propose; we suppose and oppose, and the points of
procedure are fun.
But though various notions are brought up as motions, there’s terribly
little gets done.
We confer and concur, we defend and demur, we reiterate all of our
thoughts;
We revive the agenda with frequent addenda, and consider a load of
reports.
We resolve and absolve but we never dissolve since it’s out of the
question for us;
What a chattering pity to end our Committee; where else could we make
such a fuss?
From the Civil Service Pensioners’
Magazine; with thanks to St Peter’s, Formby. None of our committees,
needless to say, in any way qualify for these comments…
Sunday 28th May - S. Mary’s
Patronal Festival
The
Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary to Elizabeth
(transferred)
10.30 am PATRONAL
FESTIVAL EUCHARIST in S. Mary’s
Preacher: Fr. Paul Robinson
(S. Thomas Lydiate and S.
Cuthbert Halsall)
followed by BBQ lunch, children’s
games and bouncy castle (please note no 11am service in S. Faith’s)
Congratulations
…to our esteemed Organist and Choirmaster Gerard Callacher (can’t call
him Ged now!), on his acceptance for training for the Roman Catholic
priesthood. We are delighted of him, and we wish him every blessing as
he gets ready for this momentous step in his life – but we shall of
course miss him and all he does for our musical life very much indeed.
We are looking for his successor, and will be pleased to hear from
anyone who is interested. For more details please contact Fr Neil or
see the website advert.
Gordon
Slater R.I.P.
It was with great sadness that the people of St Faith’s and St Mary’s
heard that Gordon lost his long and brave battle against cancer on the
Wednesday of Holy Week. He was much loved by all who met him for his
unfailing commitment, courage and great good humour. A fuller
appreciation will appear next month.
The
National Pilgrimage
to the Shrine of Our Lady of Walsingham
Monday 29th May 2006
12 noon Concelebrated Mass
(in the Abbey Grounds; Principal Celebrant: Lord Hope of Thornes)
2.30 pm Sermon, Procession & Benediction (Preacher: Brother Paschal
SSF)
Pilgrimage Handbook & Admission: £3.00 (school-age children:
admission free); activities for children: tickets £1.00 - in
advance from Janet Marshall, The Education Department, The College,
Walsingham NR22 6EF or e-mail: ed@olw-shrine.org.uk
Sunday 7th May at 6pm
May
Devotions to the Blessed Virgin Mary
Choral Evensong, Procession and Benediction
Preacher: Bishop Rupert Hoare, Dean of Liverpool
Ascension
Day – Thursday 25th May
6.30am Procession & High Mass followed by
breakfast in the Vicarage
Preacher:
Fr. Gerwyn Capon (S. Mary, West Derby)
10.30am Eucharist with hymns in S. Mary’s
7.30pm Eucharist with hymns in S. Faith’s
Big
Breakfast 2
On Saturday 24th June there will be another Big Breakfast at Rosie and
Rick’s house to raise money for the Waterloo Partnership Sierra Leone
Appeal. Last year the event was a great success with over £300
being raised and this year the full English breakfast will include all
your favourites, or if you insist, the low fat, zero cholesterol
alternative.
Tickets will be on sale soon at just £5 so see Rosie and book
your breakfast NOW!
Retreat to Parcevall Hall
Kathleen Zimak
One of the most helpful experiences organised during Lent this year for
parishioners of both churches was the annual retreat to Parcevall Hall.
Parcevall Hall is the Diocese of Bradford Retreat and Conference
Centre, housed in the former home of the late Sir William Milner, who
donated the house and its beautiful gardens in 1973 to the Guardians of
the Shrine of our Lady of Walsingham. It is situated in the heart of
the Wharfedale valley and is close to Bolton Abbey. The house is
centuries old but warm and comfortable, and the hospitality of the
staff is exemplary
The gardens laid out by Sir William Milner from 1927 onwards lie on a
steep hillside and are the only English Heritage registered gardens
open to the public in the Yorkshire Dales National Park. The sixteen
acres of formal and woodland gardens rise up the hillside and command
impressive views of Simons Seat and Wharfedale.
They are planted with many specimen trees and shrubs collected from
Western China and the Himalayas. Formal terraces overlook several
woodland trails. For the Christian pilgrim one of the most moving
experiences is to follow the Stations of the Cross that have been
erected in the gardens, breathing in the beauties of creation while
recalling how our Creator took human flesh and followed a way of
suffering to His death on the cross..
This year the retreat, whose theme was 'Take up your cross', was
conducted unusually by a partnership, the Rev John Willard, recently
retired from a busy parish in the Midlands and his wife Rachel who has
long experience as a spiritual director. In turn they led the
addresses, and invited us to study the ways in which three followers of
our Lord took up their own crosses. The stories of St. Peter, Mary the
Virgin and St John in the New Testament all provide a wealth of
material for meditation, prayer and contemplation and a means of
examining our own lives and commitment. Individuals will have found it
easy to identify with one or other of these disciples as they struggled
to understand the mysteries of the incarnation and were confronted with
their own weaknesses.
The programme for the weekend included Eucharists, Compline, and other
times of corporate worship but there was ample time for personal quiet
prayer, study and reading, as well as exploring the wild landscape
around. It was a time to get to know
each other too in the silence as much as the conversations at the
beginning and end of the retreat. Saturday’s flurries of snow turned
into a major blizzard overnight and the participants relied on a snow
plough to free up the roads for their cars for the journey home on
Sunday. The countless snowdrops in the garden reminded us however that
Spring is not far behind and we were able
to look forward to Easter, feeling spiritually
renewed by the teaching and opportunities for
prayer that we had been given.
All of us feel very grateful
for the privilege of being at the
retreat and hope very much that another will be
organised next year.
War – and
Peace Joyce Green
We have just returned from a memorable city break in Berlin. It is a
city in which one is constantly and poignantly reminded of its recent
history, from the profusion of modern concrete buildings which have
risen from the ruins, to the monolithic Jewish memorial; from
Checkpoint Charlie, with its nearby “Museum of the Wall”, to the
several white crosses opposite the Brandenburg Gate which are a
heart-rending memorial to those who were killed whilst trying to escape
an oppressive regime and return to their families and loved ones in the
west.
Berlin is full of history but it is also a modern city with large
department stores, where one may buy an excellent and cheap lunch from
the amazing displays in the top floor restaurants and all of the people
we met were friendly and helpful. There are also wide boulevards with
cafes and designer shops: the most famous road being the
Kurfürstendamm, or Kudamm as the Berliners love to call it.
Standing midway down the Kudamm, is the Kaiser Wilhelm Memorial Church.
This is a famous ruin which has become an icon of Berlin. The church
was built as a memorial to Kaiser Wilhelm the first, and was
consecrated in September 1895. It was a huge church with five towers of
which only one is still standing.
On Sunday 22nd November 1943, the day on which the German church
commemorates the departed, the preacher chose as his text, “All things
shall pass.” His words were prophetic - a few hours later, the church
was destroyed in a bombing raid, leaving only the west tower. This ruin
became beloved of Berliners and was affectionately known as “The hollow
tooth,” When it was proposed to demolish it in order to build a new
church, there was a storm of protest and luckily, the powers that be
took notice. The tower was made safe and was retained to stand as “an
admonition,” we were told, “against war and destruction, and a call to
reconciliation in Jesus Christ.” A new modern chapel and bell tower
have been built either side of it. The new tower has six bells, the
largest of which carries this inscription: “Your cities are burnt with
fire. But my salvation remains forever and my justice shall know no
end.” Words from Isaiah.
The old tower, now a memorial hall, gives a tantalising glimpse of the
former church’s glory with its beautiful mosaics on both ceiling and
floor. A display of photographs recall both the history of the
church and of the suffering of the people as their church and city were
destroyed by war. In front of a clear glass window stands a statue of
Christ which was once part of the old altar. An inscribed plaque in
front of it reads: “Forgive us our sins, for we forgive everyone who
sins against us.” To the right of the statue stands a cross of nails,
presented by the cathedral congregation of Coventry. The cross is
formed from nails collected from that cathedral’s ashes after that
church too, was bombed. This cross has today become a symbol of
reconciliation and similar crosses are
to be found in Dresden, East
Berlin, and Wolograd (formerly Stalingrad). On the other side of
the statue is an icon cross, given by the Russian Orthodox church,
again as a sign of reconciliation.
They do say that travel broadens the mind, and I can certainly vouch
for that. Our experiences in Berlin helped us to see the war from a
different perspective. I would certainly go back as there was still so
much that we hadn’t had time to see, museums, parks, and the
surrounding areas of countryside which are apparently very beautiful.
Here’s to the next time!
More
smiles
* A Mormon told me that they didn’t drink coffee. I said, ‘My friend, a
cup of coffee every day gives you wonderful benefits.’ He said, ‘Like
what?’ I said, ‘Well, it keeps you from being a Mormon.’
* There was this man, as they say, walking through a cemetery when he
met a man with a dog on a lead.
‘Morning’ he said to the man.
‘No, just walking the dog,’ came the reply.
Would you believe it?
Chris Price
Yet more examples of the extremes of idiocy to which our 21st century
society seems to be prone. The editor is yet again indebted to the
Daily Telegraph for these choice items. They are reproduced without
comment in the interests of keeping his blood pressure down.
A man has been issued with a £50 fine for ‘misusing’ a litter bin
– by putting rubbish in it. On his way to work he bumped into the
postman, looked at his mail and put two pieces of junk mail in a street
bin. He was stunned when a letter arrived from his local council saying
he had committed an offence by putting ‘domestic refuse’ in a public
bin.
In vain he argued that potato peelings and bottles were domestic
refuse, but junk mail wasn’t: Hinckley and Bosworth borough council
were unrepentant and clobbered him for the £50. He intends, not
surprisingly, to take the matter to court rather than pay up. Watch
this space – and try and guess what the cost of pursuing the action
will be…
Meanwhile,
over in Ely, 82-year-old grandmother Betty Wilbraham, a retired
teacher, popped in to her local for a half of Guinness and fish and
chips, and was ordered to remove her headgear – a black hat with maroon
ribbons – for ‘security reasons’. Apparently there was a risk that, if
this 5ft 3in stalwart of the Ely Women’s Institute started any trouble,
she wouldn’t be recognised on the CCTV cameras. She took off her hat
rather than be expelled, but considers the situation ludicrous. The
manager explained that until recently customers were only asked to
remove caps. ‘We put in the new signs because we were finding it
difficult classing what was a cap,’ said he. ‘In this day and age you
don’t know who are the troublemakers.’
And finally (for now at least), a senior surgeon at a Penzance hospital
has made a public apology to patients whose operations are being
postponed – because he has been too efficient. He and his colleagues
have been told by the local health authorities to slow down, because
they have surpassed their six month targets. Needless to say it’s all
about money: the cash-strapped local Trust can’t pay for operations
that are brought forward due to Peter Cox’s efficiency unless they have
waited at least 18 weeks from the time they were put on the list – and
Mr Cox had inexcusably reduced his waiting list to five or six weeks.
A Reflection for Ascensiontide
– from the writings of Dr Edward Norman, former Chancellor of York
Minster.
Ascended and Glorified
Christianity is centred in trust. We are called to trust in God and in
his providential arrangement, both of the circumstances of our lives
and of the world in which we live 'and have our being'. But it is
precisely this sort of trust that modern people find extremely
difficult. We are beset with anxieties, and life for many becomes
choked by preoccupation with security. Those who expect so much, and
who believe themselves entitled to so much, are incapable of dealing
with the normal hazards and uncertainties of life. No matter how hard
we try to protect ourselves against fate we find ourselves subject to
it: loved ones leave us or die, fearful disease or age itself reduces
our independence, our children are ungrateful, jobs and homes are lost.
Most of the things which afflict us, in fact, are not susceptible to
human solution whatever we do. For the world as God has made it was not
designed for our comfort and convenience: we are creatures placed in an
environment whose providential purposes are not known to us. God in his
mercy has regard for our fate, yet we in our ingratitude rail against
him for not having given us immunity from the way the creation works.
Even the environment itself is now a subject of human complaint: how
can God have afflicted us with so much sorrow? Some -
and it is an increasing
number - find themselves unable to believe in the reality of a God
whose world so persistently interrupts our pursuit of a painless
existence. They cannot see that it is we who have made demands beyond
our place in the creation, who expect special treatment not available
to the buzzing mass of living tissues that cover the face of the
planet. God has raised us to consciousness and to a measure of
creativity; we ignore the graciousness of the gift and claim the
benefits of divinity for ourselves.
It is hardly surprising, therefore, that men and women have problems
also with trusting in religious tradition, for it is something not
within our immediate capacity to verify. Religious truth, to be known
about, depends upon trusting others. This last week the Christian world
celebrated the Ascension of Christ. It was an event that seems at
variance with the expectations of the prevailing material culture, and
scepticism about its historical reality will have been voiced in quite
a number of pulpits: it is common these days to interpret the miracle
in a non-literal sense. But Christians are dependent for a knowledge of
the historical truth of the Ascension on the same body of preceding
believers whose witness and testimony has authenticated all other
aspects of Christianity. They know about the truth of the Resurrection
from the same source. To interpret either event in symbolical or
metaphorical style is at variance with the record of the Faith itself,
and is anyway quite unnecessary. To trust in God is to trust in a
miraculous presence - not, perhaps, in the everyday passage of events,
but in the grand design which is expressed in the world and which
provides the true environment of our lives rather than the shadows
which pass.
The Man
for the Ministry
Martin Jones
reports….
Hello again,
on a scale of 1 – 9 I’m on 6. Since I last wrote to you I have
completed a placement as a student Hospital Chaplain. The
placement was very demanding and I’m pleased to say that not only did I
learn about this extremely rewarding ministry but I also learnt
something about myself too. I thought that the best way to share my
experiences of this time of learning was to share with you part of my
journal of my time on the wards.
Date: Sunday 25/12/05. What
happened today, duration 4.5 hours.
Today’s task is to carry out bedside communions and distribute
Christmas cards to all the patients on the wards. Time included having
breakfast with the Chaplaincy team. The Chaplaincy team divides
in order to complete all the communions in two hospitals by midday.
My feelings and thoughts, what I
tended to do.
It’s early, it’s Christmas morning and many of the Chaplains have been
to midnight Mass and are tired. Yet there is an atmosphere of
quiet dedication coming from the multi-denominational team (C of
E/RC/Free Church). For myself I am achieving a
personal goal of actually doing something for somebody in a less
fortunate position than myself on Christmas day. My supervisor tells me
that in the case of a patient who is either too confused or too ill to
receive communion then bedside prayers are said. She (my supervisor)
tells me about the miracle of the Lord’s Prayer. Sometimes a
patient even in what seems to be an unreachable condition will respond
to the Lord’s Prayer and may even mouth the words.
I visit an old lady who is very frail, skin and bone and heavily
bruised. She is confused and drifting in and out of a half sleep. I do
not sit but stand by her bed and lightly touch her hand and say the
Lord’s Prayer. She turns her head toward me, fixes her large blue eyes
straight into mine, her toothless mouth contorts into that which is
about to sob deeply, there is no sound. My eyes water and my throat
tightens, I say a blessing and leave. I feel deeply touched and believe
that I have experienced the miracle of the Lord’s Prayer.
Self-evaluation
I am beginning to discern the enormity of this type of ministry.
I feel the privilege of it, the importance of it and the sheer intimacy
of being with people under such circumstances.
I am unsettled by my experience with the old lady, she is forever in my
mind; questions keep coming to me. Did I do all I could?
Did I give her cause for concern? Did she think she was dying and
I was giving her final prayers? Did I frighten her? Did I
witness what I thought I witnessed or what I wanted to witness?
I turn to my supervisor and share the step-by-step account of my
behaviour during bedside communions and bedside prayers.
I’m doing just about everything wrong, but at last I know what I’m
doing wrong and I know what I need to do both initially (which is
easily corrected) and that which I need to develop.
I need to bring Martin to the visit, not a person with an order of
service.
By standing over the old lady instead of sitting quietly beside her, I
probably did frighten her, God forgive me.
My supervisor explains to me her tried and tested visiting technique.
Learning record
1. On approaching the ward assess its atmosphere and the conduct of the
staff. Are they rushed, tense, relaxed, am I going to make their
situation worse. Have there been any recent deaths on the
ward? This will have a significant effect on the state of mind of
all on the ward; I need to be aware of any such condition so that I can
minister, through relevant prayer, in that environment.
2. Assess the patient physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Physically - are they in pain, is there a catheter that I could trip
over? Emotionally - are they stable, upset, angry, worried? Spiritually
- what degree of spirituality can be perceived, eg, are they likely to
want time to confess during communion or rather be happy to proceed to
the next part of the liturgy without pause?
3. Assess the patients’ surroundings. Is there any evidence of cards,
flowers etc from past visits from family and friends. Is there a drink
nearby for elderly patients who may struggle with a dry communion
wafer?
4. How do I introduce myself initially - and where am I during that
introduction-particularly important to be non-threatening to sleepy or
confused patients - crouch down briefly before leaving to get a chair.
LISTEN to what the patient is saying, take it in, remember names and
situations that are relevant to the patient and can be used later in
extemporary prayer.
Try to sit alongside and only slightly ahead of the patient, not facing
them or over them. This allows a non-threatening situation, a
mutual vista and the ability to vary the amount of touch during the
visit.
5. Assess the visit as it progresses and adjust accordingly on
emotional, physical and spiritual grounds.
6. Did I pray with the patient and include things that needed to be
said, things that are relevant and helpful, things picked up upon
during the introduction and throughout the visit?
7. How to end the visit, if the patient has been distressed during the
visit I must brighten the mood before leaving. Is a prolonged
period of companionship required before leaving, is a follow up visit
required in the week from another Chaplain?
8. After leaving the patient what is my assessment of them physically,
emotionally and spiritually as compared with their pre-visit state?
9. How has the visit left me feeling?
Our local hospitals always need ward visitors and patient escorts. If
you think you can learn from my experience and offer 1-2 hours per
week, then give the Chaplaincy a ring. Escort training at Whiston
Hospital: Part One 26/4/2006 7.30-9.00;
3/5/2006 7.30-9.00. Part Two 17/520/6
7.30-9.00. If these dates are incon-
venient then please still contact the Spiritual Care Department on 0151
430 1657 as there will be further training over the summer.
My best wishes to you all.
A special invitation for people in the Diocese of Liverpool.
Celebrate Christmas in Bethlehem
20-28 December 2006
Celebrating Christmas in Bethlehem is once again possible, and will be
one of the highlights during a special pilgrimage to the Holy Land led
by BBC Radio4’s Thought for the Day presenter Revd Rob Marshall.
Departing from London Heathrow on Wednesday 20th December, this
memorable journey will include visits to important sites associated
with the New Testament including Nazareth, Jerusalem and Bethlehem,
where they will join fellow Christians for Christmas services.
The group will attend Midnight Mass in Bethlehem and a Carol service at
Shepherd’s Fields, one of the most sacred sites to Anglican Christians.
£1195 includes return flights from Heathrow to Tel Aviv, half
board accommodation for 8 nights, transfers, guides and entrance fees.
Full colour brochures are available on 0845 610 6447 or by visiting
www.lightline.org.uk.
Summer Saturday Concerts 2006
Programme for May and June
6 May Robin Panter (viola)
and Vourneen Ryan (flute)
13 May Merchant Taylors’ School music
students
20 May Stephen Hargreaves (organ)
27 May St. Faith’s Choir – Director:
Gerard Callacher
3 June Ian Dunning
(baritone)
10 June James Firth (piano)
17 June Michael Broom (baritone) and
James Firth (piano)
24 June Michael Wynne (organ)
Church will be open on concert days between 11.00am and 1.00pm and
light refreshments will be on sale. The recitals begin at 12
noon, last about half an hour and are free (but donations gratefully
accepted).
Mums
Take Action
‘We suffer from drought and landslides as well as emergencies from
everyday poverty.’ So says Maritza Sevilla, a young mother who, through
Christian Aid partner Community Movement of Matagalpa (MCM), has taken
on a vital role in her community in Nicaragua.
Maritza lives in Nuevo Amanecer, an hour’s drive from Matagalpa. Her
community is in a mountainous region, with a river winding through it.
The single hillside road wends its way through a harsh landscape.
Deforestation and drought have devastated what was once lush, dense
forest.
When the river breaks its banks, as it often does, the community here
at Nuevo Amanecer can find themselves stranded for weeks, as happened
during Hurricane Mitch in 1998.
In response to this vulnerability MCM, with help from the local people,
built a community centre where people could meet and learn how to
protect themselves better from the vagaries of unpredictable weather.
In the absence of emergency services it’s vital that local communities
take action themselves.
And so the community elected Maritza, along with Lilian Mercado and
Lucila Castro to the Emergency Committee, who have been responsible for
devising and implementing the community contingency plan. The women
drew up maps of Nuevo Amanecer illustrating the danger zones. These
carefully hand-painted maps, with evacuation routes clearly marked,
hang in the busy community centre.
‘…we feel safe’ says Lilian, whose house was almost washed away in last
year’s flood. ‘Before we weren’t prepared but now we’re ready for
rains.’
Christian Aid has been supporting MCM, a grassroots organisation
working with rural and urban poor people to improve living conditions
in 150 communities, since 1992. A partnership of more than a decade has
meant that Christian Aid has been able to give crucial support at some
very difficult times. For example, in 1998 Hurricane Mitch hit the
country, killing 3000 people, making even more homeless, and
devastating the economy. Like Maritza, Lilian and Lucila most
Nicaraguans were unprepared for it. Then
a drought in 2002 dealt a further cruel blow, halting
much of the progress made in the years after the hurricane. MCM works
hard to make sure communities have the best chance of protecting
themselves and rebuilding after floods, landslides, droughts and
hurricanes.
Christian Aid Week begins this year on 14 May, involving more than
300,000 Christian Aid collectors who will encourage their friends,
colleagues and neighbours – almost two thirds of UK households – to put
some of their hard- earned cash into the famous red envelope. What each
person adds Christian Aid will multiply, and so will help more people
to live life to the full.
It is unlikely that those of us in the UK and Ireland will experience
the extreme devastation caused by droughts, floods, landslides and
hurricanes that many Nicaraguans face. But through Christian Aid Week
we can support MCM and stand in solidarity with those whose lives are
characterised by upheaval and struggle, contingency plans and
evacuations.
By supporting Christian Aid Week, you are among millions of people who
think poverty is a scandal we do not have to accept. Your actions,
commitment and contributions will bring about a better life for people
in poor communities all over the world.
On Sunday 14th May, Christian Aid
Sunday, we will welcome Fr. Mark Coleman to preach at the 11am Sung
Eucharist.
Christian Aid
Prayer
Lord Jesus, it is better to light one candle
than to give up hope
and curse the darkness.
It is better to save one stranger from deportation
and reunite one separated family,
than it is to say it is not our problem
and we can’t do much to help.
It is better to join hands in one work of love
than to sit on our hands and feel powerless.
Lord, help us to love you in the stranger and the refugee.
Help us to love ourselves enough to believe
that we can change things for the better.
Help us to love as you have loved us.
Amen.
Survival!
First, we survived being born to our mothers, who smoked and/or drank
while they carried us. They took Aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing,
tuna from a can and didn’t get tested for diabetes. After that trauma,
our cribs were painted in the bright colours of lead based paints.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, child locks on cupboard
doors or cabinets and, when we rode our bicycles, we wore no helmets
and we hitchhiked!
As children we would ride in cars with out seatbelts or airbags. Riding
in the back of a pick-up or tractor on a warm day was always a special
treat.
We drank water from the hose, not from a bottle. We shared one soft
drink with four friends, from one bottle and, funnily, no one died from
this. We ate cream cakes, white bread and real butter and drank fizzy
drinks with sugar in them. But we weren’t over weight because we were
always playing outside!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day long, as long as we
were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us
all day. And we were OK. We would spend hours building our go-karts out
of scraps; only to find out we had forgotten brakes. After a few
brushes with the wall and the bottom of the hill, we learned to solve
the problem.
We did not have Playstations, Nintendos, X-Boxes, or other video games.
No multi channel TV, no video players or DVD’s, no surround sound,
mobile phones, personal computers internet or internet chat rooms. We
had real friends. How? Well, we just went outside and just found them.
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and didn’t go to
court because of them. We ate worms, mud pies made up games with sticks
and tennis balls and despite being told it would happen all the time,
we didn’t put out many eyes.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house, knocked on the door, or
just walked in and talked and played. Junior Football teams had
try-outs and surprisingly, not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t
had to learn to deal with the disappointment. Imagine that!
The idea of a parent bailing us out was unheard of. They actually sided
with the law. The generation who went through has produced some of the
best risk-takers, problem-solvers and inventors ever!
The past fifty years have been an explosion of innovation and new
ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we
learned how to deal with it all.
You might want to share this with others who had the luck to grow up as
children, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for
our own good! While you are at it, show this to your children so they
will know how brave, in fact blooming brilliant, their parents really
are.
Supplied by Fiona
Whalley
Comical
Corner
Q. What do you do if you are an insomniac agnostic dyslexic?
A. Stay up all night wondering if there’s a dog.
The Vicar, a forgetful chap, went to London to buy a banner for the
Mothers’ Union. He could not remember either the
wording or the size, so he sent a telegram to his wife asking for
the details.
When he returned to the Post Office for the
reply, the girl, looking very shaken,
silently handed him the reply:
'Unto us a son is born stop. Four feet by nine feet stop.
Top half red, bottom black stop. Love Mary.’
100+ Club Winners
March
April
1st Martha
Thompson Ken Bramwell
2nd Alan Morgan
Judy Taylor
3rd Julie Voce-Pascoe Sheila
Roberts
4th Jonathan
Skeggs Chris
Price
Fair Trade Fortnight 2006
As Vic Reeves the comedian says ‘It’s important that we keep forging
ahead and keep on until it is no longer a conscious choice, but a habit
for everyone.’ So it’s good that both S. Mary’s and S.Faith’s are
now’ by resolution of their PCCs’ Fairtrade churches where the
habit of serving Fairtrade refreshments has now been firmly
established.
As you drink your Sunday cup of coffee don’t think we are alone! The
British public drink 3 million cups of Fairtrade hot drinks every day.
Sales of Fairtrade marked products are growing by an enormous 40% every
year and there are more all the time because the supermarkets can see
that people want to buy them. (One brand of coffee sold by a retailer I
spoke to was highly commended by ‘Which’ magazine.)
People in 58 countries provide Fairtrade goods and an extra 100
million dollars goes to these producers. This money has gone into
schools, education, community projects and projects that protect the
environment, because Fairtrade insists on organic production. People
are given real livelihoods instead of poverty. No overseas aid is more
effective or more guaranteed to help those most in need.
There are now 150 Fairtrade towns and cities and several other towns
and boroughs (including Sefton and London!) are working towards
recognition. This entails identifying a specific number of schools,
churches, cafes and retail outlets that market Fairtrade goods. Our
local Fair trade action group is conducting a survey of all the
churches in Crosby, Blundellsands and Waterloo to find out how many
other Fairtrade churches there are. Watch this space!!
Kathleen Zimak
St Faith’s
Holiday Club 2006
July 31st – August 6th
It’s getting near that time again. The Holiday Club will run this year
from Monday 31st July to Friday, 4th August.
There will be a meeting the Upper Room of the Church Hall on Monday,
8th May at 8.00 pm for all who are able to help with the club in
whatever capacity.
Please do come along and support the Holiday Club, we need leaders,
assistants, to make up the juice and fruit for the children’s breaks,
wash paint brushes and equipment and generally tidy up and clean up
each day. However much/little time you can give will be so
much appreciated.
Hi Ho, Hi Ho, it’s round the world we go!
Rick Walker
Just as they should have been setting off to see the United Benefice
Pantomime, Rosie and Rick set off to Manchester airport to see the
world.
As a joint celebration of our retirements, and significant birthdays,
we planned the holiday of a lifetime to see as much as we could of the
world in just four weeks. And we surprised ourselves with what was
undoubtedly the most successful holiday we’ve ever had.
It started off however at 7 o’clock on a cold February morning when we
arrived at Manchester airport and Rick discovered he had ‘lost’ his
driving licence. See further down . .
The next problem was our flight to Singapore which was delayed for a
couple of hours and then cancelled. Surely things couldn’t get worse?
We need not have worried from then on our Fairy Godmother intervened
and everything worked out fine – just as it always does in Panto.
We were re-routed through London and arrived in Singapore a few hours
late but with a compensation cheque from Singapore Airlines for the
delay. We could use the compensation to reduce the cost of the holiday
or buy a new camera and some made to measure clothes from one of the
dozens of Singaporean Tailors who can make anything in 24 hours. We’ll
leave it to you to guess what we did, but the decision suited us well,
and you can borrow our photo album anytime you wish!
Singapore was all we expected - a busy, noisy hot metropolitan city
that was well mannered and scrupulously tidy. No litter anywhere and
courteous shopkeepers who seemed genuinely happy to serve their
customers. The food market in Little India was an eye opener and I’ll
spare you the details but two days flashed by leaving lots more to see
if we ever return.
An overnight flight to Sydney and we found ourselves booking into a
wonderful hotel overlooking the Opera House and the Harbour Bridge. The
QE2 was there also to add to the feeling of unreality, and we had the
most incredible seven days you can imagine: walking over the top of the
Bridge, visiting the Blue Mountains, trips across the harbour by ferry,
paddling at Bondi and Manley beaches, great food and great hospitality.
The Rocks market is a must for any tourist, as is a visit to the Opera
House and the zoo. There seems to be a local traffic rule about
speeding high church priests but we didn’t spot any. The hotel had an
Internet room so we were soon back in touch with home, and looking at
the panto photographs on the church website.
So much for hotel life! After a flight to Christchurch New Zealand,
several ‘phone calls and e-mails to the DVLC in Swansea, a fax copy of
my driving licence arrived and we took command of a camper van for a
week. About every fourth vehicle in New Zealand is a camper van and the
whole island is geared up to making life for the itinerant tourist easy
and enjoyable. Apart from the weather which was a bit patchy, the
scenery was stunning, the people friendly and the food as good as it
can be on a two-burner stove with a very poor grill and no oven.
However, the restaurants were well up to par and the camaraderie on
camp sites was as good as any we have found in the UK.
We drove nearly 2000 Kilometres during the week, over several mountain
passes of more than 5000 feet and visited glass works, museums, a glow
worm dell, several churches and black sand beaches. The highlight quite
literally was a helicopter flight to the top of Mount
Cook which, as it’s about 12,000
feet, saved a lot of hard climbing. We
landed on a glacier near the summit and the silence combined with the
clean air and clear light was breathtaking. Most of the camp sites had
Internet access so we were able to keep in touch with home and family
on an almost daily basis.
. . . and so ends the first part of this modern-day saga as
the intrepid explorers leave their Antipodean mobile home and head for
. . . ?
Don’t miss next month’s episode entitled “And on the eighth Day . . . ”
Address by the Bishop of Liverpool
to the Diocesan Synod, March 2006
As Christians we are people of dual citizenship. Citizens of the
Kingdom of God who recognise that God is sovereign and that there is no
area of public and private life that can be withdrawn from the
sovereignty of God; we are also citizens of the State with all the
rights and duties of those who by virtue of nationality vote, pay taxes
and possess a passport. The relationship between these two
citizenships has for two millennia exercised the conscience of the
Christian church. To what extent should we engage in public life
either as individuals or corporately and to what extent should we seek
to influence public policy with Christian values are just two of the
questions we wrestle with as we ask ourselves whether the values of the
Kingdom of God are for the church or for the world or for both.
It will not surprise you that I have a view on all these questions!
My purpose today is not to debate the pros and cons of these issues but
to draw attention to an area of public life that is at the interface of
our faith and public policy. I am referring to the Assisted Dying
Bill. Should this Bill become law it will undoubtedly change the
moral, legal, religious and cultural landscape of England and Wales.
Even though commentators such as Polly Toynbee resent the role of
religion in public life it is religious leaders that have been most
prominent in resisting moves to make legal assisted suicide or
voluntary euthanasia. The arguments advanced for supporting the
Assisted Dying Bill seem on the surface to be compassionate and
persuasive for they are intent on minimising suffering in those for
whom the quality and quantity of life are severely diminished. To be
against such apparently well meaning intention makes the opponents of
‘assisted dying’ appear heartless and even bigoted on the grounds of
religious principle.
But like the Religious Hatred Bill, which is stacked up with good
intentions but paves the way to a scenario worse than the one it seeks
to remedy, so the Assisted Dying Bill seems kindly but creates a new
world in which the chronically sick and terminally ill will become even
more vulnerable in their time of greatest need.
In dealing with this subject I know that today there will be many
of us who have struggled personally with these issues. Indeed,
some who at this very moment are carrying a burden of care for someone
terminally ill.
If I were asked to discern patterns or common features deriving from my
years in pastoral ministry undoubtedly one of these would be the plight
of the chronically sick and elderly. In
private and personal conversations the
frequently-expressed
sentiment was that of being a burden to the family, relatives and
friends. People travelling long distances to visit, people
working full time to pay the bills who literally cannot afford to care
for those in need are just two aspects of modern life that make the
dependants feel that they are making impossible demands on those
nearest and dearest to them. Furthermore, through a combination
of the advances in medical science and the pressure to achieve
Government targets to secure funding the sick and the old find
themselves more the objects of medical procedures rather than patients
to be nursed. All this and more contribute to a diminishing sense
of personal worth and value, where a patient’s self-esteem, already
undermined by sickness, physical and mental, is laid even lower by the
sense of being a burden to others. It is at this stage in a
person’s life that society would now be saying “Come on, take the pill;
you know that’s what you said you wanted.” We would not
countenance such a suicidal attitude towards a deeply depressed,
beautiful, twenty year old woman in mental agony who wanted to end her
life. Why should we encourage it towards a deeply depressed,
elderly, eighty year old?
The reasons are manifold but here are just two. We differentiate
between the young and the old on the grounds that length of life left
to live determines the degree of worth. This is a moral principle
not acceptable to people of faith. A person’s value is measured
not by the length of years but by virtue of being created in the image
of God.
The second reason is that we deem the mental anguish of the twenty year
old to be of lesser weight than the physical distress of the eighty
year old. But this would be comparing arbitrarily two personal
conditions and seeking to calibrate and differentiate their suffering –
an impossible task.
If we do not accept the autonomy of the twenty year old woman to kill
herself or let herself be killed then there are no moral grounds for
accepting the autonomy of an eighty year old to do the same.
What is at stake is the character of society, and in particular the
nature of that society as experienced by its weakest and most
vulnerable members. Are we prepared to invest in palliative care
and hospices? Are we willing to support and properly remunerate
families that care for the sick and the dying? Are we willing to
assure all our members that they are of equal worth regardless of their
physical and mental condition?
None of this is to deny that end of life experiences can often be
extremely difficult, physically painful and mentally distressing.
The medical profession and society at large have long accepted the
‘double effect’ of relieving pain to the point of hastening
death. In spite of criticism from supporters of Lord Joffe’s Bill
that this is dishonest, hypocritical and lacking in transparency
society has seen this as keeping faith with the primary vocation of the
doctor and nurse to relieve pain.
This is the hallmark of a compassionate society that we do our utmost
to relieve the pain of those who suffer, to treat people with dignity
and to value their humanity however frail they may become.
Doctors and nurses must be transparent to their patients and to their
relatives in caring for them in this way. There must be no acting
or hypocrisy in the medical profession who offer one thing yet deliver
another. This is the honesty that patients seek (I’ve been one!)
Trust in the medical profession is at stake. Baroness Finlay, an
expert in palliative care, who leads the opposition to the Bill in
Parliament, has drawn attention to the poor palliative care services on
offer in both Holland and Belgium where Assisted Suicide is
offered. She tells the story of a young mother in Holland
diagnosed with cervical cancer being depressed by being offered
euthanasia in every ward round.
Furthermore, the National Group for Palliative Nurse Consultants has
made the point that it is nurses rather than doctors who attend the
dying and that ‘no suffering is unamenable to relief when a patient and
family and expert practitioners work together to tackle its
complexities’. The Group’s expert opinion is that the Bill is
flawed. But there is no doubt that the mood of popular opinion is
shifting in favour of assisted dying if not outright euthanasia.
This is in line with the moral shift in favour of the supremacy of the
individual and the cult of individualism that characterises our culture
so that ‘everybody does what is right in their own eyes’.
Although we might warn of the social consequences the public is blinded
by the elevation of individual rights. Some of you may remember
that prior to the abortion Act of 1967 there were warnings of the
scenarios that the Act might lead to. The popular imagination was
blind to what might and did indeed occur – namely that abortion has
become common-place with over 5 million foetuses now killed and 180,000
killed every year.
Supporters of the Assisted Dying Bill deny that such a slippery slope
will follow but history is not on their side. The vulnerability
of the chronically sick and elderly will be made worse by such a bill
in a society that increasingly idolises youthfulness and despises
ageing. The elderly and infirm will not be made more secure by
these measures; rather they will feel more alienated from a society
that is increasingly unable and unwilling to pay for the medical care
that advances in medical science makes possible.
Jesus challenged the casuistry of his day by saying and questioning ‘Is
it lawful to do good or to do harm, to save life or to destroy
it?’ In a different context his word still rings true. I
hope Christians will engage in the debate and bring to bear the values
of the Kingdom on the politics of the world and on the pastoral care of
the chronically sick and the terminally ill.
+James Liverpool
Two Waterloos – One Hope
When I offered to organise the logistics for the Waterloo Partnership I
had little idea what it would entail. The learning curve has been
not so much steep as vertical, and has included getting to know how to
use a computer in order to communicate with our shipping agents
and with the British High Commission in Freetown. The arcane details of
Bills of Lading, demurrage and customs valuations have been a novelty,
too, the object of the latter being to price the load as low as
possible, in case customs charges are made. Fred and I have also
managed the collection, sorting and packing of a bewildering variety of
goods, mostly educational, for shipping to our partners in Waterloo,
Sierra Leone. Luckily for us several primary schools in Sefton have
closed recently because of falling rolls, and we have liaised with the
Education Authority to obtain surplus books, educational resources and
equipment, which will be invaluable in Sierra Leone. Other goods have
come from public appeals, and from schools and churches; and local
businesses have generously helped with gifts in kind, such as transport
and storage.
Since November last year we have shipped out three 40 ft containers,
and the list of contents is impressive: 125 crates of books, 34
crates of teaching resources, 18 of stationery; 1250 school chairs, 400
tables, 1100 paint brushes, 650 school slates, 120 reams of paper,
filing cabinets and cupboards, gym and sports equipment, and 45 sewing
machines with a huge quantity of fabric and thread. Not to mention a
mound of blankets and bedding, children’s shoes and clothes, workshop
tools and gardening implements! We are extremely grateful to friends
from St. Faith’s who gave their time to help transport, pack and load:
we could not have done it without you!
The Partnership is now entering a new phase of activity. Since the
priority of our SL partners is young peoples’ education, we are now
actively planning to help them build a library and educational resource
centre, which will require ongoing funding for a salaried librarian. An
initiative is also needed to support the hundreds of children made
homeless by the civil war. In order to sustain these long term projects
with predictable income, the charity is hoping to raise £12,000 a
year from regular donations. With this in mind we are looking for a
thousand people to join our new ‘One Thousand Hearts Project’,
undertaking to give one pound a month to the Waterloo Partnership by
standing order. (We hope that this small monthly contribution will not
prejudice donations to Medic Malawi in any way). If you would like to
help with our long term projects, Fred and our Treasurer Kathleen Zimak
have standing order forms:- but please don’t be too surprised if we
make the first approach! A regular contribution to the charity would
cement the relationship between the two Waterloos and help the poorest
country in the world.
Linda Nye