‘Give a new heart to those who have fallen from the
practice of faith; may they again find joy in Christian
discipleship.’ Some poignant words used during Evening
Prayer.
No-one has ever found being a real disciple of Christ easy
but constant effort on our parts should bring great joy.
However Jesus repeatedly warns the crowds about the
hardships and difficulties they would face by following
him and that message wasn’t just for the inner circle of
faithful Apostles but all people of all times. Generally
Luke portrays Jesus as merciful, sensitive and gentle but
when it comes to a question of possessions either
emotional or material he becomes demanding. To anyone
listening to today’s opening sentences and who genuinely
tries to live out the gospel in their lives – those words
are absolutely devastating and confusing. Are we really
being asked to hate our families and ourselves and then
later on he talks about giving up all our possessions? I
remember a sermon that Bishop David once preached when he
talked about treasured possessions and after the service a
friend said to me something like Oh dear, that really has
made me think about all my CDs to which I replied yes and
I kept thinking about our caravan in Anglesey!! We all
have possessions that we really wouldn’t want to be
without!
If Jesus was really asking us to hate our families and
give up everything which makes us who we are, our personal
characteristics or our treasured possessions it would make
him immoral and unethical as a teacher. We must not accept
the text out of context, as often happens when isolated
verses are quoted; the first rule in biblical
interpretation is to compare the text with the rest of the
Bible and also take into account the culture of the time.
Passages such as these are very challenging, especially in
today’s world I remember making it very clear when I was
training for ministry that I would never leave or neglect
my family.
Jesus however is not using the word hate about our
families in the way that we understand that emotional term
today; the word hate in the Bible is often used to express
priority and preference rather than emotional hatred. What
it means is that we give priority or preference to
Christ’s call even over family love if something presents
an obstacle when following our Christian principles.
Once when I was teaching the mum of a boy in my class
found some stolen items in her son’s bedroom and after
much deliberation she informed the police. She told me
that she loved her son dearly but after all right was
right. She certainly didn’t hate her son but acted in a
way to show that she placed her Christian principles above
her son’s actions.
Of course many Christians have felt called to obey Jesus’
commands literally and have lived their lives as hermits,
religious or missionaries, they did choose to give up all
their worldly goods and we all know of St. Faith and other
martyrs who gave up their lives totally for Christ.
But what do these extraordinary demands of Jesus mean for
ordinary people, living ordinary lives? The parables in
the reading call us to take stock and become aware of what
is going on in the world. Sadly we do live in a society
where great emphasis is placed on prestige, power and
materialistic possessions, if we take in the enticing
adverts around, pop up adverts on our computer screens or
on the persuasive pages of newspapers or glossy magazines
it becomes clear that we live in a permissive culture, one
that worships false gods, possessions, alcohol, drugs,
crime and greed. Our young people are in a state of
confusion and revere celebrities, sport’s stars and want
designer clothes. So how can we pay attention to the
things of God when are part of such a culture?
In our own rather comfortable ways we are happy to say we
are followers of Christ, we go to church every week, say
our prayers daily and do our best to live Christian lives
but if we are truly honest when gospel values clash with
our own way of thinking we have little difficulty
compromising. We happily pick and choose and yes, we do
try to live out the Gospel message but often on our own
terms. And let’s be honest we don’t really expect or want
to be called to make huge sacrifices in our lives. Perhaps
the greatest barrier to total commitment is our
unwillingness to give up the things which provide security
and material comfort.
Renouncing these things however does not necessarily mean
giving them up, but it does mean developing a detachment
from them so that they aren’t the b all and end all of
everything in our lives. It is our attitude towards our
possessions that is the all important thing and the way in
which we encourage others to share them or how we use them
for the benefit of others.
Following Jesus does come at a cost and the journey is
frequently challenging and demanding but Jesus never sets
us up to fail. He is saying clearly to the crowd that if
they want to follow him they’d need to understand what
they are getting themselves in to, they need commitment
for the long haul ahead. During these times we may well be
carrying our own cross but let’s not forget that Jesus is
also alongside bearing that cross on our behalf.
Jesus wants everyone to be aware of inevitable sacrifice
but also wants us to be prepared to see our discipleship
through to the end. He emphasises to the crowds that the
decision to follow him must not be taken on impulse or
without careful consideration. Discipleship was not then
and is not now a past time but an exacting way of life.
On a personal level I was horrified when I first retired
from school and a friend suggested that I would now be
able to enjoy my church hobby so much more! She obviously
didn’t have any idea of the commitment needed.
So when Jesus is tells the crowds to hate their parents
their wives and abandon their children and also hate
themselves he is sharply confronting them with the
importance of their commitments as they join a much larger
family, we don’t live in a bubble so need to take stock
and fully commit to becoming true disciples of Christ.
Jesus wasn’t denying the importance of close family ties
but was saying that there was an urgent task to be done.
We have an urgent task here today and must act as Jesus
would expect, ignoring our own personal preferences about
things and making sound choices with integrity so that
others can benefit.
There were always risks attached to what Jesus asked of
his disciples just as there are today and everything,
including our lives and decisions will have some element
of risk attached if we are working to benefit God’s
kingdom.
Our faith should be a challenge, an inspiration, yes, a
summons to sacrifice but also a call to great joy. True
discipleship touches us at a deep emotional as well as a
spiritual level; it affects values, priorities, loyalties
and our whole way of looking at our world, our community,
our lives and the lives of those we love. I pray that we
may all go in joy and with commitment to love and serve
the Lord. Amen.